The Playette is a combination of Tester, Denier, and Idealist. She is like an iceberg. There is so much beneath the surface, and it’s worth exploring! The Playette is not always easy to recognize. That’s kind of the point with this girl. She doesn’t wear her emotions on her sleeve, and she tends to be secretive about her personal life. Typically she is modestly dressed, and looks around a lot, but is on the quiet side. She isn’t shy, but is definitely more of an observer than the Social Butterfly (TJI). The Playette protects herself for good reason. Once you get past her walls, she is sweet, soft, sexy, and exciting. She has wonderful gifts to offer, but it these very gift that make tricky to handle.
2.Social Butterfly (T,J,I)
We all know about “the party girl.” She’s the pretty, energetic girl that talks to everyone, including you, and then leaves you wanting more. Was she flirting with you, or is she just like that with everyone? Guess what – every other guy in the room is thinking the same thing. Guess what else…she knows it. The Social Butterfly is a combination of Tester, Justifier, and Idealist. Her behaviour likens her to her namesake. She is like a butterfly – beautiful, enticing, and hard to catch – unless you know what you are doing. As with all Testers, if you must separate yourself from the countless other guys chasing her. She embraces an aggressive approach, as long as she does not get the feeling that you are after sex.
3.Hopeful Romantic (N,D,I)
The Hopeful Romantic is somewhat old-fashioned. She daydreams about the perfect man coming into her life, romantic escapades, and has long-term hopes with the men she gets involved with. For the Hopeful Romantic, the potential of a long-term relationship is the foundation upon which everything else lays. It’s not that she needs a boyfriend or husband – those are simply socially construed titles. You must go deeper and hit her at her core to satisfy her emotional and sexual needs. Men often run into trouble with a Romantic by coming off as insincere or “player-ish.” It’s OK to be seeing other women when you meet a Hopeful Romantic, because relationships are founded in honesty.
What’s interesting about the Cinderella type is that she is likely exceptionally beautiful and dresses in a way that is sexy, revealing, but always classy and mature. She is a head-turner, and she knows what she is doing. She wants to be as attractive as possible so she can snag a great catch of a man. If she does not have a man, she is looking for one. The irony is that often the Cinderella is single. Adding another layer of irony is that most guys assume she has a boyfriend because of her good looks, sexual-yet-classy style, and extreme feminine energy. But the Cinderella is often the victim of repeated heartbreak. She wears her heart on her sleeve and lives in a world of hopes and ideals. She doesn’t put up any walls to sleeping with a man if she likes him. To her, it makes perfect sense to sleep with a man if she is secure that he’s not going to run off. She is very passionate and heats up fast.
5.Private Dancer (T,D,R)
Just like the other Tester-Denier type, the Private Dancer has two sides to her personality. There’s the mysterious-yet-innocent exterior. And there’s the passionate and sensitive woman inside. Only a select few get to see this hidden part of her. She keeps herself protected because she is a giver. When a man is special to her, she gives him her all to contribute to his life and keep him happy. She needs to play this role to feel fulfilled in a relationship. And this is why she has to be very selective with who she gets intimate with. She doesn’t want to give her gifts to a guy who doesn’t deserve them. Now it may seem that this woman is more of an iNvestor, given the above description.
6.The Seductress (T,J,R)
The Seductress is a Tester, Jusifier, Realist. This combination makes her a very confident, sexual, independent woman. She is a Diva – not in the dramatic sense (she is very level-headed) – but in the sense that she is strong, sexy, and has a presence that intimidates a lot of men. That’s good news for any guy reading this, as you can move forward confidently. Simply understanding her and knowing how to handle her is massively attractive, as she sees most men as weak and insecure. This is very frustrating to her, as she is very horny, but also very career-focused. She doesn’t have time to coddle egos. In sense, her attitude screens out the weak. If you can keep your cool, not get emotionally needy, and take care of her needs sexually, she will be a wild woman – one of the all-time greats in your little black book.
7.The Connoisseur (T,D,R)
The Connoisseur, as will other Deniers we’ve examined, has an interesting contrast. She is extremely picky, and also has a very practical and cautious approach to dating. This may seem like a challenge to most guys. Any difficulty posed by the Connoisseur is outweighed by her susceptibility to see your sex as a reward for her non-sexual effort. Like the other Denier-Realist, she is a giver. She sees her time with you as a gift that she can’t just give away to anyone. You must be special, because as a Denier, sex is special (to a Justifier, sex is fun). But, in contrast to the Private Dancer (TDR), she is inclined to invest in her relationship with you. A Tester will hold back and protect her emotions.
8.Modern Woman (NJ,R)
The Modern Woman is a cool chick. She is independent, probably has a good job or has ambitious goals, and she takes dating with a grain of salt. She is not cynical, and she enjoys men, but she doesn’t get too serious unless she feels there’s a reason to. Essentially, she has a very healthy, real-world approach to dealing with men. She hopes to one day meet a guy for a long-term relationship. She may even have a boyfriend at the moment. But she is also comfortable with casual fun.
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